113: The Validation Trap: How Seeking Approval Blocks Our Healing
Do you find yourself waiting for an apology, a compliment, or even a sign that your healing is being witnessed?
In this raw and tender episode, we explore the often invisible — yet incredibly powerful — force of validation and how it can quietly keep us stuck in pain.
From the early childhood roots of needing to be seen and soothed, to the ego’s endless loop of craving approval (especially after heartbreak), Elisabeth opens the door to a deeper conversation around truth, worthiness, and radical self-honesty.
If you’ve ever felt unseen, dismissed, or like your pain didn’t “count” unless someone else acknowledged it, this episode is for you.
You’ll learn:
-
Why we crave external validation (and how it’s not your fault)
-
How the ego uses validation to protect us — but also sabotage us
-
The subtle ways validation-seeking keeps us stuck in our healing journey
-
What it means to self-validate and reclaim your inner authority
-
Practices to start validating yourself every single day
LINKS MENTIONED AND MORE
- The brand new healing app is LIVE - download the Rising Sisterhood app today and take some positive steps for your healing starting now: https://www.theseparationclub.com/risingsisterhoodapp
- Take a bigger step towards healing and growth and join my 3 night / 4 day Lake House Retreat, June 12-15th. All the details can be found here: https://theseparationclub.com/lake-retreat
- Kickstart your healing with the brand new JOY JOURNAL: https://www.theseparationclub.com/the-joy-journal
- I would love to work with you towards your healing, self-discovery and in creating your new life. Working with a coach is a great way to discover your purpose, your path forward while gaining clarity on your beliefs and core values. I have openings in my calendar for some new clients. https://www.theseparationclub.com/coaching
- You can also set up a discovery call with me. It's free and an opportunity for us to get to know each other. Here is a link to my Calendar so you can book something that is convenient for you: https://calendly.com/elisabethparsons/discovery-call
- Also make sure to download the Free Separation Checklist: https://theseparationclub.com/separation-checklist
- FREE MASTERCLASS: Register for our next free Masterclass: https://www.theseparationclub.com/masterclass
- Join the private and free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theseparationclub/
- You can also find me on Instagram @elisabethjoy444 where I share daily inspirations and tips as you navigate your divorce.
- And the brand new Instagram account for The Joy Journal: @thejoyjournal444
