56: Why I don't believe that marriage counseling can save a marriage in trouble

 I know this might an unpopular opinion, but here's the thing - most couples when they "finally" agree to go to marriage counseling as a last ditch effort to save a marriage, rarely agree on the necessity of it and are likely not being totally honest with themselves about why they want to go. So, it's time to look at things a little differently, to change perspective and ask yourself (honestly) WHY you want to go to marriage counseling and what your goals are.